Child-Mother Attachment and the Self in Six-Year-Olds
Studied 6 year olds (N=52, male = 26, female = 26) who were assessed using an adaptation of the Strange Situation Procedure, for use with six year olds. They compared attachment to the following assessments:
- View of the self by indirect interview (the child supplies a puppet's answers in response to questions about themselves)
- Beliefs about how others view them (using a family of dolls to act out situations)
- Self-esteem by direct interview (similar to the puppet interview but direct)
- Feelings and competence by measure (Harter's Scale of Perceived Competence and Social Acceptance for Young Children).
The variation on the Strange Situation Procedure (used for 2 session, 1 month apart) was as follows:
| Episode |
Personnel |
Duration |
Activity |
|
1 |
Mother, child and experimenter enter the room. |
5 mins |
Juice and cookie warm up session |
|
2 |
Experimenter leaves |
10 mins |
Picture drawing session. |
|
3 |
Mother leaves, experimenter returns. |
60 mins |
Other measures are administered. |
|
4 |
Mother returns |
5 mins |
Reunion behaviour observed. |
|
5 |
All present |
|
Additional measure in session 2. |
Attachment was assessed using a scale devised by
Main &
Cassidy (
1985) based on the child's reunion behaviour with the mother during episode 4. Results from the non-attachment measures were as follows:
| |
Secure |
Insecure/ |
|
Avoidant |
Ambivalent |
Controlling |
N = Proportions |
22
42% |
8
15% |
6
12% |
16
31% |
View of self (puppet interview) |
Report self as being perfect but are willing to admit to minor flaws when pressed. |
Insistance that they are perfect. |
Report self as being perfect but are display a negative self view. |
Display an overall negative self view. Self critical. |
Beliefs about how others view them (family of dolls) |
Open negotiation. Child and mother of equal value. Warm relationships. Able to use mother as source of safety |
Child is isolated or rejected and does not turn to the mother for safety. Conflict and importance of relationships is denied. |
n/s |
Open negotiation and able to use mother as source of safety but also child behaves in a hostile, negative or bizarre way towards the mother. |
Self-esteem interview (direct interview) |
Open view of the self, generally positive but are willing to admit to minor flaws when pressed. |
Insistance that they are perfect. |
Not significant on the basic measures but children were body preoccupied. |
n/s |
| Self-esteem measure |
More positive self-esteem that the other categories. |
Less positive than secure |
Less positive than secure |
Less positive than secure |
The results above support the idea that there is a relationship between the six year old child's view of the self and maternal attachment:
- Secure children had a positive self-image with capacity to admit and tolerate imperfections in self and others.
- Insecure/avoidant children were defensively idealizing of the self and dismissive of relationships.
- Insecure/controlling children were negative about the self and showed higher hostility towards others. They appeared less concerned about rejection.
- Insecure/ambivalent children showed few clear or strong patterns of responses but were clearly not secure.